Intro to Prince & SnowDove

     Prince & I have been together for 21 yrs and will be married for 17 come this year.
     We meet in high school in history class and when I first saw him I just new that I would be with him forever and here we are 21 years later. We have had our ups and down but we have always made sure that we work together through them all.

     We have a very unique marriage. About 13 years ago, we decided that we needed to add to our marriage, after some thought, we decided that we should try adding to us as a couple vs. adding to each individual.That is when I realized that i have a very outstanding husband in and out of the bedroom. I needed someone to share him with, someone that was as unique and special as him and I. So we set out in looking for someone that would fit our criteria.
     There have been a few that we thought would work. There was one very special lady that we thought we could have had something with but because of other things in her life, it didn't last. So we looked some more, and found a couple other girls, but never found a girl that was there for the both of us. Most of the time they were just in it for Prince. 

So we come to where we are now.
     Two months ago Red met Prince through a mutual friend couldn't remember a joke that was told to him but Prince, so he brought Red over so Prince could tell it to her and she became very intrigued with Prince. And over the next few days they started chatting on Facebook. Eventually Red wanted to get to know him more so she came back out to our house. This is where their story begins.

Now for the intro into Red & I.
     Red and I started off on Facebook with Red saying that she felt weird talking to my husband as often as she did, so then as she started become less shy and more of herself, we became friend right away. I had good feeling about Red and looked forward to getting to know her. The first few weeks were the best and then something changed. The next month is a blur because of some very high emotions; a lot of hurt feelings, a lot of jealousy, and a whole lot of anger because I found out that the friendship between Red and Prince went beyond just friends. I felt that the way that it came about was not the way it should have been. But as I got to know and understand things between Prince and Red, things started to feel more right and a very loving bond has came from it. 

There were and still are something that I'm working on to better the relationship for the 3 of us. And more to come on that.  

When Prince and I First Met

     A friend of mine (lets call him Kal) had just recently moved to a different city, so I decided to come check out his new place. Roughly about 20 minutes away from my house if you speed... I decided that I was going to drink a little so I planned on staying on Kal's couch that night. Well, he wanted to introduce me to his neighbors. Of course, being as nice as I was, I wasn't about to say no. So I followed. We walked into a house with two dogs bombarding me and Kal until the woman on the couch called them back. A quick introduction to her and we went downstairs. The steps were steep and we had to duck under the first floor. Kal stood between me and this new man sitting in an odd looking chair with no backing. I peeked around Kal to meet a man who was also leaning around Kal to find out who was in his home. Apparently, there was no warning of my arrival. 

     Kal had warned me about this man. According to Kal and society, this man was a pervert, but the good kind of pervert. The kind that wouldn't hurt you. He didn't have any secrets, and he spoke his mind. Another word that Kal used was 'ass'. This new man was an ass. Which is an accurate description but only if you can learn to know him first. 

     There was a quick introduction to Prince and I soon found out why they called him an ass. He is honest. Some people say there isn't such a thing as too honest, but if you ever have the honor of meeting Prince, you will know what too honest is. That is one of the things that attracted me to him.

     Later that night, I felt more comfortable at Prince's house on his couch rather then at Kal's house. Come to find out that Kal wanted me to sleep in his queen size bed rather then on his couch. There was a fight and I just drove home, rather then dealing with his BS. (Not to worry; it had been a while since my last drink, nothing was blurry, I wasn't slurring, and I walked in a fine strait line). Turns out, that this was the first fight with Kal of many to come. 

     Over the next couple of days, I decided to contact Prince via Facebook. Best decision of my life. Our conversation started slow, then got more intricate. And eventually, I decided to come back to his house and say hello!

How I met SnowDove, though, wasn't quite as exciting, as it was scary. Above, I mentioned a woman on the couch as I walked into Princes house. That was SnowDove. That wasn't much of a meeting... But I met her again on Facebook, almost a week after I started talking to her husband. I was terrified to start talking to her... Talking to the wife of the man I had been minorly flirting with... Talk about feeling awkward. But she seemed nice enough according to what Prince said about her. So I figured, why the hell not. And from our conversations over Messenger on Facebook, she proved to be sweetheart. I was I instantly taken with her.

The "Situation"

So I realized that we are being very vague on the purpose of this blog. And I'd like to fix that. 

SnowDove and Prince have been legally married for just under 20 years. And they have asked me to join the love that they share, seeing as they have enough to go around. So me, as my own person, decided that I would love to be included in their circle. I guess you could say that it's like the Mormon religion in some twisted convoluted way... Just because Prince has more then one woman. Hopefully, someday, he may have another wife as well. However, we are not Mormon. 

     In a way, this is the real life SisterWives. But with only two of us rather then 4 or 5. 

     And may I say, this is very difficult. Jealousy and anger are two emotions that have been contributing far too much to this relationship.

Message to all readers;

If we say anything that offends you, get over it. That's your problem not ours. Simply stop reading. We are real people, this is real life, and we aren't about to change it or how we portray it just because you don't like it. I'm a very blunt person, so chances are; your going to get offended. Get over yourself, life isn't just about you. 

A New Chapter

 We are stating a new chapter in our lives and I'm looking forward to it. With the help of to very spacial people I'm looking forward to the best thing that can come out of this. 
With two very loving people that can help me over come the jealousy that I’m have and uneasiness that I’m having on letting someone into our lives that is a blessing and a angle I'm sure that our lives will be very rewarding in the end. 

There will be times that I will get upset with things that are going on around me and I'm just going to have to use the tools that are being handed to me to handle that I'm not liking to I can understand why that is. 
There are going to be thing that are asked of me that I’m not going to want to do or give but with that I'm going to have to think that if  I want something I should be give what is being asked of me.

Intro by Red

     Hey, I'm Red. An alias given to me by a very dear friend of mine. Ever heard of the SisterWives? Well the tv doesn't ever show what's behind the scenes. All of the jealousy, truths, and drama. It's true, the happy is there... we just haven't gotten that far yet. It's just me, Prince, and SnowDove so far... and yet I still question whether I stay or go. We have only been together since November of 2013 but it feels like longer...

     In choosing our aliases, mine was easy. Prince started calling me Red because of the color of my hair. Though if you think of the color red, what does it mean? It is the color of energy, passion, and action. Where, when I think of the color red, I think of anger and hatred. Funny how I see myself as a different person then Prince or SnowDove see me. But I chose to use it. Whereas, Prince and SnowDove were not as easy. 

     I chose to use Prince for him because he is like my prince. That is my name for him, the one that means the most to me... In defining prince, I choose to use my own meaning rather then the Google Definition which is the sone of a monarch. His father isn't so much of a monarch, but rather a dunce. My definition of a prince is;

- understanding

- patient

- compassionate

- leader by nature; by heart

- intelligent: wise

- strong in all aspects

- handsomer

- passionate

- charismatic

And most of all;

- fulfills the dreams of his beloved

     SnowDove, however, was not my idea but hers. Taken from the actual meaning of dove; a person who advocates peaceful or conciliatory policies. And referring to snow as white, meaning pure. This is what she wants to be, rather then what is her. Our job as partners is to help her become what she wants to be and lead her away from what she doesn't like being.