Thursday, February 27, 2014

Tough Love

     Dove is crying right now. I'm not sure what to do. I'm sitting at the computer and wondering if I should go hold her like Prince is right now. The only thing that is keeping me seated is her words not too long ago.
     Prince and Dove were messaging back and forth over Facebook and he wanted me to read what she was writing. So I did. And I wasn't happy with what she said at all. She has apparently been thinking that she needs to "let [Prince] go", that she needs to leave him. My thoughts are, "really? After all of that work, she wants to just leave. She isn't willing to actually learn anything and we just wasted 3 months of our lives". I'm not sure what to say to Prince. I'm getting worked up, I'm really not happy with what she has to say. "How dare she think that she can't work on herself? How dare she think that she needs to give up because we haven't apparently been there for her!" She stated that we weren't there to catch her when she fell. That we haven't given her enough chances. We are offering another chance at this fucking moment! Are you fucking kidding me!
     The reason that I don't go to her now, as she cries on Prince's shoulder and apologizes, yet again, is because I don't believe her. She does this way too often. The difference between a truly sorry person and someone who doesn't give a shit, is if they do the thing that they apologize for a second time or a third time, or even an eighth time. I'm getting annoyed with having to accept the same apology over and over again. If she thinks that I'll be there for her after she clearly stated that she didn't think that either of us were here to catch her... She is dead fucking wrong. For the record, this is all coming out much more in my writing then in my actions or words.
     I admire Prince for his actions though. He is calm, logical, and most of all, Loving when it comes to his wife. I'm not sure that that is what she needs now. 

1 comment:

  1. Really wish that I could help her over this... Not sure what else i can do to help her TBH...

    Focusing on the other things in life for a while might be a thought here. we have discussed this for a while too i think...
    I am looking fwd to a nice spring and summer... Perhaps I can come up with something that you will doth find fun and exciting...

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